Bareback or not to bareback?

Discussion in 'Polls and Humor' started by simonandlizzi, Mar 12, 2008.

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Bareback or not?

  1. Yes to bareback?

    696 vote(s)
    93.2%
  2. No to bareback?

    51 vote(s)
    6.8%
  1. simonandlizzi

    simonandlizzi New Member

    My wife loves bareback, she gets to know the other men over a few weeks by chatting to them online. If they get on OK they meet for a coffee and take it from there. Most are married men who don't get it at home. If you were my wife and you loved bareback, would you do it with or without a condom?
     
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  2. newsub4A

    newsub4A Distinguished Member

    We often go bareback with men that we deem are safe. This is not really safe sex and is rather stupid on our part i know. It is a concern and an issue that we often discusse.
     
  3. MN_Bull

    MN_Bull New Member

    to BB or not to BB, that is the question

    This is an important question. We all want to trust the person we are with. There is much greater awareness of STDs than there used to be, but they still exist (and its not just HIV). A married man is less likely to be infected, UNLESS, he is active with many other women. That is hard to elicit by chat, just as it is for him to determine if the HW is in limited contact.
    Bottom line is that the only way to be totally safe is to use protection, and only condoms protect. If she really has to go bareback, then you just need to recognize that there is a risk, and be tested occasionally in case of a surprise.
     
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  4. kitsapswinger

    kitsapswinger New Member

    Bareback!

    Take the chance AFTER you get to know the guy!

    Not going bareback certainly takes a lot out of the excitement and fun afterwards. Be careful but take the chance, again, after you know the guy!

    Sloppy seconds are wonderful!
     
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  5. simonandlizzi

    simonandlizzi New Member

    My wife says sex with a condom just doesn't feel right and feels like a waste of time. I also like it when shes sloppy. I've read lots of posts here and it seems that there are a lot of people who feel the same way.

    So far it's 5 without condoms and 0 with.

    Has anyone here ever been in the same position as my wife and caught anything from doing bareback?

    Simon
     
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  6. kingbull

    kingbull Administrator Staff Member

    I've done wives with and without condoms. For me, there isn't much difference in feel or texture. I have yet to have sex with a wife or GF who insists there is a difference. If anything, going bareback for me has a mental sense of freedom or carnality, as if she and myself are connected more deeply that way.
     
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  7. simonandlizzi

    simonandlizzi New Member

    It makes sense when you think about it. The whole idea of sex is for a man to ejaculate inside a woman. Condoms feel fake. You might as well just use a dildo.
     
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  8. DomMorgan

    DomMorgan Guest

    The eternal debate. Are sex and condoms mutually exclusive?

    Simon:

    I'm intrigued how civil this debate has remained. My experience in the BDSM and especially the swinging community is that people can get downright belligerent when debating this topic.

    As for health issues, of course condoms are safer. And of course they are not completely safe. Condoms break. Genital parasites and some other diseases simply bypass condoms and enter by direct transmission. For that matter, genital shaving opens passageways for the entry of diseases to the bloodstream.

    And yet, people go bareback all the time without catching anything. What's up with that? I'm not a physician. My doctorate is in a completely different area. So I will welcome anyone who politely wants to put me in my place.

    The first problem is that there are so many diseases in the STD field that are transmitted so many different ways that one can hardly draw conclusions. HIV, for instance, is surprisingly difficult to contract. There is a good reason that gay men were the first to spread the disease widely. They usually engaged in anal sex, where there is no natural lubrication, and therefore tearing the tissues was common. But the world grows more complex. There are different strains of HIV. One of the strains in Africa appears to be far more "contagious" than the strains in the Western world.

    I have considered another thought on this topic. Many in the cuckold world are looking for one or a few partners for the wife, not multiple partners. In the swinging community, a collection of partners is often the goal. And that introduces a problem. The immune system can fight off a lot. But it can also be overwhelmed. That's why the myth that it takes only one sperm to get you pregnant is just silly. It would be introduced into a chemically toxic environment, and die quickly. But millions of sperm with their surrounding juices can overwhelm that environment until finally one manages to get all the way inside the egg. Similarly, don't send one soldier to conquer an army.

    So as I understand it, the medical evidence on STDs is mixed because of the nature of the diseases, because of the sexual practices that open avenues for transmission, and because the number of attacks on the immune system (or simply the number of times you risk getting unlucky) varies so much.

    And what about that sensitivity thing involving condoms? Once again, I suspect there are variations on that. With the woman, the tugging on the lips and therefore the clitoris is critical. Too little is not good, be it because of small dicks or too much lubrication. This isn't always the guy's fault. There are two people at this party. Too much tugging or spreading (too big of a dick, or more commonly too little natural lubrication) is simply painful, and not in an erotic way.

    But I strongly suspect that guys can make a better case on this one. That bundle of nerve endings just behind the head of the penis is extremely sensitive to light, fluttery touches. Of course, it can be taught to be sensitive to other things. As girls become women, they learn to lick there during a blowjob. It is hard to be too delicate when your mouth is stretched. And yet, we guys seldom complain. And while it is legendary advice not to use your teeth, some guys love intentional scraping. That is the opposite of treating the penis with sensitivity.

    I guess what I am trying to say is that we can train ourselves to get eroticized by what is on the menu. But in cuckolding, many don't take as many risks. Hence, they can keep it simple.

    And with luck, they'll stay lucky.

    Morgan
     
  9. babylacyjane

    babylacyjane Member

    bareback

    I try to always be very careful in knowing the guy quite well 1st but alos am teasted often also. But I do love bareback better
     
  10. PDXsubcuck

    PDXsubcuck New Member

    My wife (and I) are firmly in the bareback camp!

    Actually this topic gets a lot of people riled up in the swinger and hotwife worlds on most forums. So I am pleased that there hasn't been much of the "my way is the only way" or "if you do (or don't do) that you must be crazy" stuff here so far.

    My wife enjoys having lovers over fuck buddies or one time meetings since she is then more comfortable about enjoying them bareback.

    She has told me that she has always enjoyed bareback, the feelings of a lover coming in her, the wet sensations afterwards...the whole mess, and at times it does mean mess since a guy that comes a lot really turns her on. She has enjoyed meeting a lover in the morning and feeling him leaking out of her the rest of the day, assures me that that leaves her on a bit of a sexual high. There must be some mental/emotional issues as well since she doesn't feel as if she has been with a lover or been a naughty wife until her lover comes in her pussy.

    I feel fortunate that B has always enjoyed come or sperm or ejaculate on or in her. I love seeing her rubbing my come or a lover's come into her breasts or belly, playing with it leaking out of her pussy, rubbing it into her nipples and inviting me to suck on them. I enjoy seeing my wife coming home from a date and spreading her legs and showing me her wet and well used pussy and then asking me to taste her lover...
     
  11. simonandlizzi

    simonandlizzi New Member

    Interesting so far. 35 say yes to bareback and only 5 say no. I thought it'd be more than that. Nothing better than that silky feeling though is there?
     
  12. bmctex

    bmctex New Member

    we love bareback

    There is nothing like a slut wife giving her pussy to another man to fill with his cum. I love fucking my wife's silky smooth pussy knowing that she loves being a slut full of cum as much as I love her being one. We do choose carefully, the men who get to fill her. Once they have been selected they have a standing invite to fuck her whenever they want.

    Here's a pic of her getting her slut pussy filled.
     

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  13. luv it bare

    i always have condoms available in case the guy i picked up in the bar or club insists on using them but i love it when they get so horny and worked up and ram it in me bare, especially since i'm not on any birth control. the risk of possibly getting knocked up by a total stranger gives me the most intense orgasms as he's pumping me full of cum
     

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  14. NECuck

    NECuck Super Moderator

    sub_married_filipina, Welcum, nice pictures..... BTW, Does that tattoo have any meaning???? Maybe someone can cum up with a Tattoo that would signal a message of yes or no to bareback...
     
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  15. subhub looking

    subhub looking New Member

    When you meet me you can leave the condoms at home. lol. i must say though You are one beautiful woman.

    subhub
     
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  16. illation

    illation New Member

    Bareback Please!

    I prefer Bareback because I don't like the taste of condoms.

    Illation
     
  17. Cordon

    Cordon New Member

    Bareback

    My wife prefers bareback, and I love to see her do this. My wife usually only has one, other than myself, lover at a time... and it is a process to choose him.

    She prefers a married man, stable, and one that we get to know socially. They use condoms until they're both tested and she feels confident that he is cheating with no one but her.

    My wife says she feels more intimate when she can have his sperm inside if her. If I haven't been with them, she has such a beautiful smile, sensually rubs her lower tummy and tells me she has his swimmers in her!
     
  18. Kermess

    Kermess New Member

    Bareback is beautiful​
     
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  19. M'sManinFL

    M'sManinFL New Member

    She prefers bareback and so do I... however she is considerate and leaves it to the guy... for me it is the pregnancy risk that makes it hot, even though it is hard to admit... I don't understand why and in the "sane" moments I know it would be a bad thing if she got pregnant by someone other than me but in the "insane" moments that usually come when I am "under the spell" "in "cuck space" and/or drinking a bit I tell her I want her off birth control... she admits the pregnancy risk arouses her intensely as well... especially now with one lover she has fallen for she would love the connection of having his child... if he were anywhere near as emotionally attached as her I believe she would stop birth control.
     
  20. franehr123

    franehr123 New Member

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