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Discussion in 'Hotwifing, Swinging and Swapping' started by cuckedupuk, Sep 19, 2016.

  1. cuckedupuk

    cuckedupuk Member

    So my wife has agreed to wear an anklet. I think she finds this really sexy and a turn on. I want to make sure I get this right and maximise the opportunity. Am I correct in saying it's the left ankle? We are in the UK. Any other tips?
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  2. saturn

    saturn Super Moderator Staff Member

    If she finds wearing an anklet sexy and it turns her on, that's great and really is the only purpose of an anklet.

    The anklet thing is not a well-known thing among the general population. The vast majority of men at a bar might not even notice her anklet, and if they do notice it will not register with them in the slightest other than it looks nice. Sure, you could put charms on there with symbolism about 2 cocks, black cocks, Queen of Hearts, etc, etc, but honestly most men in a bar would never even see what the charm was specifically.

    The only people who know about "anklet = available hot wife" are a small subset of the cuckolding community. If you know this going in then you won't be disappointed when she doesn't get hits just based on the anklet alone. The fact that it makes her feel sexy and turns her on will have more impact on her interactions with other men which might lead to something than the anklet itself. That is the only way an anklet increases her chances of getting fucked by strange men, and it is why you should continue to encourage her to wear it.

    All that said, it matters not which leg she wears it on. The fact that you have to ask lends credence to what I've said above.
  3. DeannaHouston

    DeannaHouston Well-Known Member

    I wear an anklet on my left ankle. It is pretty with white gold and rhinestones. Matches my other favorite jewelry. It does not have hotwife symbols. This past year 3 different men have asked. 2 were direct, "is that a hotwife anklet" and one asked if it had any particular meaning. I am pretty sure the third guy knew but didn't want to offend. I see men and am out a lot. I don't think 3 is very many. It is actually kind of disappointing. I was hoping to get more.
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  4. capn.steve

    capn.steve Active Member

    I wonder how many women who wear an anklet know about the meaning of it?
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  5. saturn

    saturn Super Moderator Staff Member

    Great point. I didn't even go into that side of the issue. :p
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  6. DeannaHouston

    DeannaHouston Well-Known Member

    I agree, My mom was wearing an anklet this past summer and I had her switch to her right ankle. Lol she was shocked when I explained it to her.
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  7. Swith

    Swith New Member

    I bought my wife an anklet for Christmas at her request.

    Gold with a single heat charm. She suggested we get some extra charms.
    Not going to get anything extra obvious, what do you all recommend?
  8. DeannaHouston

    DeannaHouston Well-Known Member

    Swith, i am so happy you got your wife an anklet for Christmas. Jeff got me one a couple of years ago. I have not found that it works, most men don't know meaning, and most men don't pay attention to details.

    And to answer you question...if she is into BBC get a "spade", submissive men "Kneeling man figure", large cock..."rooster", any of the fertility symbols, lips, or any of the MFM symbols.
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  9. UnicornBull

    UnicornBull Member

    I didn't know anklets mean hotwife except when they wear the spade which means BBC.

    Learn something new every day, haha
  10. Swith

    Swith New Member

    Thanks Deanna.
    Great suggestions, I am excited by the fertility symbols and the Cock

    We had drinks with friends last night and she got some very flirty comments from an older man we were introduced to.

    Was hoping to work out if he picked up on the anklet or just responding to her flirting.
    Last edited: Dec 28, 2016
  11. rob788

    rob788 Guest

    My wife has worn an anklet with the MFM symbol. It isn't commonly noticed, so a few months ago we ordered two cuckold necklaces, one with a cuck symbol and the other reading, "Hot Wife." Those certainly do get noticed, particularly while we on a cruise in August.

    She isn't typically into being picked up by strangers. But awhile back, we were in a hotel lounge. A man sitting with two friends he had met that night spotted the necklace. He left his buddies to walk over to our table. He introduced himself and we invited him to sit alongside us in that dim corner of the room away from the few others that night.

    He said, "I like your necklace." She pointed to her anklet and said, "Then advertising works!" At his questioning, I admitted I enjoyed watching my wife getting fucked.

    We paid our bills and he invited us up to his room. I watched excitedly as he fucked her.

    On the summer cruise, she was fucked by two men, one around 40 and another in his 20s, separately while I watched in our cabin.

    Other men have also noticed either of her two cuckold necklaces but she hasn't taken those up on their offers. She's picky about that. Although she still occasionally wears the anklet, our preference is the more-noticed necklace.
  12. JeffHouston

    JeffHouston Well-Known Member

    I also like when Deanna wears her anklet. However, it has not been as successful as we had hoped. Maybe we need to hang out in places where the audience is more receptive - hotel bars, cruises, lifestyle clubs, etc.
  13. christinebitg

    christinebitg Well-Known Member

    Would you be willing to take photos of the two necklaces and post them here?


  14. rob788

    rob788 Guest

    Hi, Christine. I had to ask my wife where we ordered those, and she found the receipts. They aren't expensive. And we can do better than posting a photo of the necklaces - PM me for the website we used.

    Glad to help others like us!
    Last edited by a moderator: Dec 28, 2016
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  15. saturn

    saturn Super Moderator Staff Member

    Actually, it would have been better to see her necklaces around her neck (no face necessary, of course)! :) I had to edit you post. We do not let new members post links offsite. I changed your post indicating other members that are interested can send you a private message. In a private message you can send the link.

  16. rob788

    rob788 Guest

    Thanks. I didn't know that.
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  17. slowpoking

    slowpoking Well-Known Member

    Hi Deanna. If you were explaining this to your mom and were somewhere where you saw her anklet, does that mean she saw yours, too? More to the point, did/does she know about your lifestyle? Maybe you've talked about this before, but if so I missed it.
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  18. DeannaHouston

    DeannaHouston Well-Known Member

    Hi Slowpoking. I do not think that I have mentioned anything before but thank you for paying attention to me. My mom does know, I am not sure she understands but she does know. You can call me any names or descriptions you want...but i have never been monogamous even as a very young person. My mom wouldn't cover for me but she knew. She doesn't think what I do to Jeff is fair, since he is so "good" to me...in her words. And I think she just accepts it at this point. No matter how many speeches she has given me....I am what I am. Deanna
    Last edited: Dec 30, 2016
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  19. JeffHouston

    JeffHouston Well-Known Member

    The people who are close to us know.
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  20. DeannaHouston

    DeannaHouston Well-Known Member

    And JeffHouston, gets a thrill out of people knowing. He is kinky like that.
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