So my wife and I had a long serious talk the other night. She wants me to find someone for her and to arrange the whole thing. Part of this is because she wants to know that I'm 100% "with" all of it, so there are no recriminations later (not that there would be, but I understand her point: if I've found the guy, arranged the place and date, and basically signed off on it, I can't blame anyone but myself if I get upset.) The other part is, she's a pretty dominant woman. At work, at home, in other areas, she's always the one in charge. It's part of why men find her so attractive (especially military men, I've noticed). But she doesn't want to be in charge of this. She wants to be dominated. She wants me to tell her what she can and can't do, and for him to (gently) push her to do more than maybe she thought she wanted. So where to find her someone, do you think? We have no friends she's interested in (well, we do actually, but they're all married and she doesn't want to do that). We talked about the relative merits of the flash-fuck experience you get from the "casual encounters" section of Craigslist, opposed to cheating websites like Ashley Madison, where you get to know someone and decide whether or not to meet. She likes both ideas, especially when she's had a few drinks, but I know her well: she's going to want to get to know someone before she fucks him. She's going to need a date or two before she feels safe enough to get naked with him. And, if they click, she may want to stick with him for a while. She likes to explore things...thoroughly. So she's up for anything from a few dates to a long-term relationship. So how do you suggest a man go about procuring a boyfriend for his wife? She is interested in someone 30-60 (we're in our mid-40s), Black or White (but especially Black), and someone well-endowed. I'm 4" hard, and she has said consistently for twenty years now that she wants to be fucked by a 7" or 8" cock. Consequently, all her toys are those sizes. How do you suggest I start?