Hey all, I posted the below in response to another post, but then thought it might be a good starting subject matter for a new post. Would love to hear any responses to this, as I think I'm not alone in my outlook. Yeah, me too. I've pretty much given up on trying to please women. I REALLY, REALLY tried for many years, whether with my cock or tongue, and I just never could get any of the women I've been in relationships with to cum. Thinking back, it MAY have happened once or twice, but it was always such a struggle. And trust me, I was physically very attractive (former competitive bodybuilder, so in great shape), had at least an average penis at close to 6" erect (back then); and a true desire to try to please my partner. As I've gotten older (now 57), I've kind of given up. I'll do what my current g/f wants, but she doesn't want much. So I've not only evolved into a cuck, but kind of a willing punching bag for whomever wants to use me sexually. I do now consider myself bi, and have discovered other erogenous zones like my nipples and prostate. It's taken me a couple years, but after what originally was painful and foreign, now I can pretty quickly sink a 9-10" dildo deep in to my ass. And cumming was hard at first, but now I can cum pretty quickly, especially if I haven't been drinking too much. And a prostate cum is so different from a normal cock stroking ejack, so every guy should experience this! Also, just my opinion, but I think there's a health benefit to stimulating your prostate to orgasm occasionlly, especially as we get older. So for older guys like me, who still have strong sexualities, you can develop other channels of pleasure that don't neccessarily involve women. Explore, and try to overcome hangups...it's worth it! The old paradigms of normal man-women sex was based on our subconscious need to procreate, but when you're older, let go of that, because it's obsolete. Would love to hear others comments on this. Thanks, Jeff S.