Seems like once or twice a year my wife finds some guy to casually date without telling about it. I find out when I overhear her talking to her girlfriends, or once or twice one of them will call the house when I'm home. It'll be a friend of ours, or a neighbor, or a former student, etc. So far as I know, there's no sex involved. It's been a while since she's done that and I'm not sure what to make of it. I don't think there is any other guy. I tried to start a conversation about how spouses sometimes socialize with other people and she got pissed and wouldn't talk about it. For what it's worth, she's been dieting like never before, and she bought a whole bunch of new clothes. And a wicked pair of red platform pumps but I've never seen her in them.