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I tend to agree with this statement.
Originally Posted by lilsilkworm
I do not have any sexual interest in men nor do i want to be a girl but the humiliations etc that i must endure as a submissive cuckold are both exciting and uncomfortable at the same time.
Doing such things "keeps us in our place"
"do most cuckolds like to be feminized? are you usually "forced" into it?"
And thank You for posting this question.
There was a time (back when this was all just a fantasy for me) when i was confused about this myself. In hindsight, i think i confused wanting to be THAT completely Owned with being a sissy. i secretly sought out Pro Dommes who could help me to feel the way i knew i wanted, and without fail, They all insisted on dressing me "en femme". i then began to confuse being submissive with cross dressing.
It wasn't until i was actually IN a real time relationship with such a Woman that i began to feel completed. Ms Tasty does not require that i "dress", and i find that i am extremely grateful for that. She has occasionally threatened to make me wear Her panties if i seem to be getting too demanding or whiny about my own desires (i.e. need to cum).
So to answer Your question, Ma'am, i myself do NOT enjoy being feminized! In fact, Mistress Tasty & i both believe that doing so is an insult to Women,... mere men do not deserve the Honor of wearing Women's clothing. It is like dressing a house cat as a Lioness. W/we do not judge O/others' choices, but for U/us,... it is inappropriate. As i have said, She may choose to do so one day as a form of humiliation, but i would suspect that She would only do so to parade me in front of others.
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Forced Feminization and Male Submissive Psychology
"And now the whole point of all that is that forced feminization has NOTHING TO DO WITH ANY OF THOSE THINGS. It is not about being gay, or feeling you are a woman, or about wanting to dress up like Cher and get on a stage.
It has to do with someone forcing you to do something you don't want to do, which is a constant part of most dominant/submissive relationships."
If this were truly the case, why aren't there more fetishes revolving around being forced to fix things around the house and put the toilet seat down after use?
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forced fem of hubby
There are many aspects as to what to do to, or with, hubby as you play. "Forcing" him to dress a special way does set roles. You've assumed your Mistress role so tell us what his role is, or is in your fantasy. If it's to see him brought down or humiliated into his role and it helps to build your role... and he submits to it, then fine. If he doesn't submit to it then you are faced with a challenge. But I'd guess you already know he'll submit just to remain by your side.
I saw a wife simply walk up to her huge husband and out of the blue, hand him a pair of size appropiate panties and say, "put them on if you want to play with Thomas and I." He was willing to play, willing to have a man take his wife, but there was no way he was going to wear panties to have it happen. He took her hand and they were gone. I suggested to her later she should tell him why she gets excited when she IMAGINES him wearing panties and his hard (but small) cock is showing through. Then suggest he might try them on and perhaps tease her with them some night. It wasn't a week later she called to say she and he were coming over on Saturday evening and she had a surprise for me. You guessed it. He was wearing the panties and loved them because he was part of the fantasy.
I'd suggest there are more than twenty ways to "force" him to be femmed if you want him to be.
Good luck, if lucks all it takes,
This is what happens when we don't have an "official" dictionary
Since the thread has been reawakened, I want to agree with nova that most transvestites are hetero. There are serious surveys on that. Also, while I was never a cross-dresser, so I won't challenge nova's experience, I have known dozens personally. And once, my wife and I went to Rehobeth Beach DE off-season. For those who don't know, it is a major gay-friendly resort. As luck had it, we immediately stumbled upon a sizable cross-dressing mini-convention. They took us under their wings for a couple of days, invited us to their events, and just generally allowed us to become insiders. I dunno. Perhaps we had invisible signs that said "we're strange too."
So thanks for the memories of that great time. But more to the point, I wonder if the term "drag queen" really is regional. I have certainly heard Californians use it. But then of course, there is that magical "N" word in our lingo that should never be used by whites, but is sometimes flaunted by some blacks. Social appropriateness is such a mushy concept, especially in a culture in which being offensive to some groups is sometimes their problem, and sometimes your problem.
But to return to lingo issues, I also have worked a fair amount with American Sign Language (ASL) for the deaf. It is critical in court proceedings that signs be precise. Hence there are what are essentially "official" guidebooks on how to sign legal terms about sexual activities and crimes, so that testimony in court will mean what the signer actually means.
The problem is that for many words in sexuality, there is one sign in 49 states (and DC), and one or more other signs in Georgia. What is it about those deaf Georgians? They must be frisky to need so many local terms! Oh, and before I get flamed, I know that "deaf" is an offensive term to some who cannot hear. But doesn't that reinforce the point?
We need an official dictionary. But we are such individualists that we would never stand for it. We've been offending each other for over 200 years. In the end, we seem ultimately to get along. (pushing soapbox back under the table)
My own experience with Forced Feminization
If you both are excited by the idea, go for it. i am sure glad we did.
The idea of being forced to do something to some, is sexually stimulating.
Others I think just enjoy giving up control, and others I think, just feel that it is their place to submit to someones control.
I am a Forced Femme TGirl Cuckold. In our own terms. Everyones idea of "forced" can be different. i was happy to do it. She suggested pushing it to places i wouldn't have offered to go though.
We spent 12 yrs in the swinging scene. For about 10 yrs, wife enjoyed bi play, I never had any craving for it myself. Never thought about it.
My wife mentioned she would like to see me suck cock and be fucked, so I tried for her. She liked it, it wasn't all that for me and as far as I was concerned it was over with.
A couple years later, I stumbled across a quiz about choosing which was the genetic girl and which was the transexual.
That experience sure grabbed my attention to those girls, in a big and very surprising way.
For fun one night, I dressed enfemme for the wife and surprised her. Not just panties, but all out. (I had already been shaving my body for at least 15 yrs. Just not into body hair. ) It had quite an effect on us both.
About a year later we got into a cuckold lifestyle. She just did not like seeing me with other women, and I got just as excited watching her with Men. So no problem.
We spent a couple years practicing this lifestlye.
I then stumbled across some writings of A.K. Remenko, on the forced feminization lifestyle if you may, and it was very exciting for both of us.
For a year we pushed the envelope with gender bending and sex.
About 2 or 3 yrs into the fun, my wife decided she wanted it to go further. After reading so much forced femme material, as well as training video's, i was now very open to the ideas she had.
In our first sexual escapade with the "new carley", we had accomplished a couple of firsts. My first time with others while enfemme, Our first time with a Black Man, and it was not just one, but two Black Men. We have had 4somes with couples in the past, but not two other Men.
She had me suck them both, then they both had her, then i had to clean them up, and they then each had me as well.
The extent of my feminization was pushed by my wife. Do it right or not at all she said. i now have both ears pierced twice. Eyebrows shaped, nails manicured, sleep in womens nighties, and she has me on hormones. Of course i can not call it forced, as i happily agreed. But it was conditioning through reading and imagery.
I live completely as a male. Have no desire what so ever to be female. I do not desire to wear female clothes all the time. I do not crave to go out dressed as a female. I do enjoy the lingerie at night. Out side the home, I am always in male attire, even underneath. I never crave any sex with a Man unless I am dressed. On the other hand though, i never have any cravings to have sex with another woman anymore.
i really do not know what "official" list i would be on.
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Sorry for the slow response but I just saw this post and the last paragraph really cracked me up. But seriously my wife had made me do some of these things using the power she has over me.
Originally Posted by kinkycradlerobbingslut
I love being a sissy and love when wife instructs me to wear panties. Definitely a big turn on in the cucking process for me
Hi Mstress Myra,
Originally Posted by mistressmyra
i'm not sure the answer to that. my first time to be cuckolded, i was teased into wearing her panties because she said i had such great legs and ass and thought it would be fun to see. i was reluctant to do so at first because of the obvious reasons and did so after a bit of coaxing. i instantly got excited and she was so pleased at that and pointed out that i must like it because of the reaction. And i have to say i did get very horny when i put them on. she liked that and we continued making love with me first eating her out for a long time and then fucking. but, she insisted that i keep the panties on the whole time, which i did. she commented on how exciting it all was and how pleased she was that i did it. so, i kept them on all night. it was a little embarrassing but hot at the same time. it became a regular thing and eventually, she bought me 3 dozen pair of my own in different colors and styles even though they were all bikinis and hi cuts. i started wearing them all the time and wore them to work. it was our little secret. she'd make it a fun thing and would comment in my ear about it at different times about which ones i had on and such. it became a regular part of our playtime. she always bragged on me about how well i ate her, but never how i screwed her. that's what led to her having more lovers and she used the panties topic as a way to entice me into being involved. that's when the cucking started. i didn't like it at first but accepted it.
we have since parted ways but i continue wearing panties to this day and have dozens.
One reason for putting your cuck into feminine clothing and doing his make-up is that women's clothing is beautiful and men's clothing is, at best, business like and tidy. Make his clothing gorgeous!
Remember that a cuck can be required to wear some femme clothing outside the house. For instance a long line soft-cup brassiere and a matching full-cut panty are suitable for work. Tights are unlikely to be noticed, but they do create slight problems in the toilet and a small risk of detection. A non removable bracelet on one wrist is an elegant, visible mark of ownership, especially if the engraving says "My Wife Fucks Other Men." A chastity tube is essential.
I'd fit the cuck with the complete outfit (brassiere, panty, tights, CB3000 and a locked bracelet) for everyday wear under a business suit, shirt and tie.
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Mistress placed me in panties two years ago and has been cucking me since... i am permitted to wear male attire for work only... fem undergarments are a way of life fore me now... in addition i am collered most times wear her cock ring and sleep in lingerie... it is pretty exciting. at times her male lovers do see me in panties she enjoys humiliating me while i perform on them...
i love to dress as a sissy maid for my wife
it is all part of it
From the cucks I have seen most do NOT dress fem. Yes a couple did or made to some extent ie making them wear panties in some cases hers with a tight fit.
Some were told to put their wifes wet panties over their heads.
Great pics, you should always look this way.
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