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Cuckold Break-Up
I am seeing a therapist because I believe that my cuckold fantasy led to my last break-up. While I know that she moved out and left me for another guy because she had feelings for him, she did tell me that she thought I would be okay that she slept in the same bed with him. I really loved my ex-girlfriend, and I wish I could get her back, but right now I am in No-Contact. I think our communication broke down. She did a lot for me in the bedroom, talking about fucking other guys, developing emotional attachments to them, etc. But I never really wanted it to happen, and I never wanted her to leave me. She never took advantage of my fantasies until this night. She developed feelings for him and told me that we broke-up because of sexual incompatibilities. She never said she was unhappy until the end. It's sad because I masturbate to the thought of them together, and then afterwards I feel so guilty. I just want her back. Has anyone ever been through something like this?
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My last cuckold relationship ended somewhat in this way. I think I was fine with the realities of the lifestyle and their relationship, but in the end, she wasn't.
Some women just don't seem to be able to sleep with other men without developing an emotional bond that pushes the cuck out of their relationships altogether. (Especially when the other lover is most likely sexually superior.) There's nothing wrong with that, but it can take a huge emotional toll on the cuckold when he is left with nothing. I know it did for me.
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Originally Posted by
dconway8484
She developed feelings for him and told me that we broke-up because of sexual incompatibilities.
Don't discount the possibility that it's just "women speak" for "No, I'm leaving and we're not ever going to get back together again."
You may or may not have been sexually incompatible. All you know is that she said it, not whether it's a good description of that aspect of your relationship.

Originally Posted by
dconway8484
I masturbate to the thought of them together, and then afterwards I feel so guilty.
It's okay to jerk off thinking of them together, of the two of them doing intimate things that you wanted to have with her. That's okay, don't worry about it. It happens, okay?

Originally Posted by
dconway8484
I just want her back. Has anyone ever been through something like this?
Oh yes. I went through a bad breakup a few years ago, and moped around for months afterward. Partly that was because at the time, I had taken her statements at face value, that we really were very good together. Looking back, I can see that there were some things that meant I was better off without her.
Eventually I got over it, though it took time. It affected the relationships I had for a while after that, but I think that's behind me now.
Hang in there. xoxoxo
Christine
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