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    Not really sure where to start. Sharing something like this online is a scary thing for me but I really have no other outlet that I can think of. I guess I'll start by telling you my name is Dave, I'm 28 years old and have been married for almost 10 years. My wife Jenna is the love of my life, always has been, always will be. She's a year younger than I am and we've been together since highschool. Jenna is a gorgeous woman in my eye's and most everyone else's too I think. She's really stunning in my opinion and I never even give other women a second look. Besides her beautiful looks to me she's just as wonderful on the inside. Really I have no complaints. My story starts about 8 months back when my mother passed away from cancer. My wife really stepped up in this family set back and did so much for everyone. She especially stepped up for my dad. He was really lost for a while after Mom's death and Jenna was a huge rock for him to lean on. She was always over at his house cleaning or cooking or just being a shoulder for him to cry on. I was really busy during this time with work and couldn't be there nearly as much as I would have liked too.

    Now when I say Dad that's what he is but he isn't my biological father. He's basically raised me since I was 4 so that's how I've always thought of him, as Dad but he's really my step father. I never had any relationship with my real dad so he's all I ever knew. Dad is 47 and still in very good shape. He owns his own company ( a couple actually) and does really well for himself. He was always my role model and hero and in my opinion the ideal for what a Man should be. He's always been big and strong and virile and much more the Man than I ever will be I fear. Anyway like I said Jenna has been spending a lot of time with my Dad and they have grown very close. Recently they started taking dance classes together. For starters it's something Jenna had always wanted to do and could never get me to go along with and secondly she thought it would be good to get dad out and keep him busy with a fun project. I was and am very ok with this and they seem to really enjoy the whole thing. Recently a comment was made that started this whole thing rolling in my mind and now I just can't get past it. She innocently referred to their dance class night as a "date". For whatever reason that really struck me back and I started looking and feeling differently about the whole thing. To me in my eye's it really started seeming like she was "going out" on a date and surprisingly it turned me on. She always get's all dolled up and normally looks Un-real hot in my opinion. I guess that's the style of the dance class for everyone to look their best and be all dressed up. Whatever the cause the end result is breathtaking to me. dad stops by and picks her up always wearing a classy suit (something I never wear). Bottom line is they look fantastic together and they seem to know this. Maybe they are just feeling good and having their fun night but they seem to really "fit" together and realize it too.


    After that little innocent "date" comment by her I have brought it up in various ways here and there. Maybe looking for more fantasy fuel for my fire, maybe searching to see if there is more to it than I even think there is. And to my surprise and in ways relief I think there may be. She has nonchalantly admitted that if she were single and my dad asked her out she would probably accept. That may sound crazy but in the tone of the conversation and the questions I was asking it wasn't bad. She has also said many times over the years even before all this started how she finds my Dad very attractive and how my mother was a very lucky woman. So the bottom line with all this is I really, honestly do think there is something to this. I know from watching them together there is a very strong mutual attraction and a fun and flirty nature to their demeanor with each other. They always were flirty even when mom was alive and it was just their way. No one thought anything about it then. Now , well it does give me thoughts. Maybe something has already happened, maybe not. But as crazy as it makes me feel I think I really want it to happen. When they are together around me I seem to enter in to some weird mental place where I feel like I am just a fly on the wall watching everything transfixed. Sort of like I am zoned out or something, hard to explain. All I know is that as a "couple" they look great, maybe even sexy. I know my beautiful wife finds my dad attractive and that excites me. I also know from growing up that my dad is much (MUCH) more well endowed than I am. That's another thing that fuels this fantasy I guess. I know my wife knows of this too because I have mentioned it once or twice over the years about seeing how big he was and wondering how Mom was able to take all that.



    So that brings us to the now, where to go with all this. What steps if any do I take? Do I sit back and let nature take it's natural coarse? Do I try and help further the situation along? I almost feel that I need not do anything because the signs are on the wall if you are looking. You have a man and woman spending a lot of time together, being close, sharing lives so to speak. Mutual attraction is there, natural evolution is bound to take place. Of course both have morals so that could get in the way and if so maybe this is where I should come in, let them know somehow it's ok? I just don't know. But I have thought about it, fantasized about it, so on so much, I feel I really want this to happen. Advise please and thank you for your time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by curiousdave View Post
    So that brings us to the now, where to go with all this. What steps if any do I take? Do I sit back and let nature take it's natural coarse? Do I try and help further the situation along? I almost feel that I need not do anything because the signs are on the wall if you are looking. You have a man and woman spending a lot of time together, being close, sharing lives so to speak. Mutual attraction is there, natural evolution is bound to take place. Of course both have morals so that could get in the way and if so maybe this is where I should come in, let them know somehow it's ok? I just don't know. But I have thought about it, fantasized about it, so on so much, I feel I really want this to happen. Advise please and thank you for your time.
    First, ask yourself what you would like to have happen. If (and that's a big IF) you would the two of them to have a sexual relationship, then you may also want to ask yourself a few other questions -- things to define for yourself what your hopes and expectations would be. For instance, would you want the two of them to become an exclusive couple? (That is, you don't have sex with her.) Do you prefer that the two of them only fool around occasionally? Or something in between? Would you want it to be a truly romantic relationship between the two of them, or "just sex"?

    I'm not saying that you will be able to control the direction things take, but you may want to define better what you would enjoy seeing happen. What are your fantasies? And also perhaps, what fantasies do you have that you would NOT want to see take place in reality? Would you like the two of them to have a clandestine affair? Or perhaps to be affectionate in front of you?

    Would you prefer to have the two of them remain as they are (as far as you know now) but that she talk about it in fantasy terms with you?

    There are a lot of possibilities, and I would enjoy seeing what you would consider to be the best possible outcomes.

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    You gave me a lot to ponder. It's so hard to capture all my emotions and thoughts as they seem to run rampant and flip flop from this and that. But I can say for sure that I do want her to be intimate with him. I can't explain why I feel this so strongly but I do. It's like when I see them together interacting it just seems so natural and meant to be to me. Part of me hates feeling this as she is the absolute love of my life but I've almost come to the feeling that they should be together. Now I don't want her to leave me for him, NO WAY! But part of me feels its meant to be or something.

    I guess I could live with it in fantasy terms if she wanted to go along with that. I mean to just use it as fantasy material in the bedroom would be exciting for me if I thought it excited her also. But I would feel so nervous and sort of sick bringing this up and asking her to fantasize about my dad's big cock to me. If she ever initiated that though I would be very quick in going along.

    In some of my private fantasies I've imagined her sneaking around behind my back and carrying on a long and passionate love affair with him. Never lessening her love for me but being there for him in a more passionate way than with me. I mean in reality I do think he brings out more of that primal urge type woman feeling in her than I do. The way she reacts to him is very different and somewhat obvious than the way she does with me. Once again hard to pin point or explain and maybe some of it is in my own mind but she seems much more womanly with him and more in charge, equal with me. So I see her being more turned on by him in a lot of ways than she is with me.

    I've also fantasized about her cheating and then coming clean and admitting the whole thing. Obviously finding she has my support she continues and has a fun and sexy relationship with him. In time they become bolder, more comfortable and she is more open with her affair. They do get to a point where they are comfortable enough to be somewhat intimate, expressive infront of me. I have to admit that's an extremely sexy thought to me. Maybe seeing them kiss, hold hands, cuddle, so on. I can't really say I ever fantasize about watching them make love because it seems so strange to picture my dad fucking. I like the idea of it, want it to happen, but it seems to cross one too many lines to actually watch it. Plus I know without any doubt, neither of them would ever allow that to happen. They are moral and good people at their core and while nothing is wrong with sex I know they would feel just as strange about that sort of thing as I do. But maybe I could listen in, hear what happens in a neighboring room? That seems hot.

    So I will say that I have thought about this at great length and feel very sure that I do infact want it to go to the next level. Become reality. I do not ever fantasize about being cut off myself and left out. I would hate it if she told me she only wants to be with him. I adore her in every way and cherish my sexual times with her. She is my goddess in ever way. It would devastate me to no longer get to be intimate with her. But I do think it would be hot to have her be with him frequently, maybe even desire him sexually more than she does me. Like I said, they seem to be such a natural good fit personality and looks wise. I believe the sex between them would be awesome based on how they look and interact regularly.

    Dance class/ date night is tomorrow. I would say that recently this is the day of the week my wife looks forward to most. She loves these "dates" and talks about it a lot. On two different occasions now they followed these classes up with a dinner out at a fancy restaurant. I worked late both those nights so she had no reason to rush home. I am probably working late tomorrow night as well so she may have another dinner after again. This to me makes it really seem like a date. She gets picked up at 6:30, class starts at 7 and then she doesn't get home to after 10 (on the dinner nights).

    So Christine (or anyone else) what now? Sit back, watch and wait? Some times I feel that may be best and it is fun watching and not knowing for sure. But then there is the restless side of me who wants to rush it along to even more exciting stuff.

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    I think you need to get ahead of this thing, before it is too late.

    Right now, there are two things going on in secret: whatever is happening between the two of them that your wife has not shared with you, if there is anything, is a secret between the two them; your own fantasies constitute a sexual secret you are keeping from your wife. Both of these secrets, in my humble opinion, amount to cheating, and threaten to drive a wedge between the two of you.

    If you just let nature take its course, then either they will become lovers, or they will never take the relationship to the next level. If they become lovers behind your back, they will both be wracked with guilt, and you may well lose them both. This seems to me a very high price to pay for some delicious fantasies.

    If I were in your shoes, I would share my fears, my jealousy, and my fantasies with my wife. I would be very, very careful not to let her think I was accusing her of anything. She may well be unaware of the sexual nature of her developing relationship with your dad--Hell, they may both be clueless at this point. I would be prepared for her to be very defensive and hurt that I could even imagine her cheating. I would try to transform this dangerous, if exciting, reality, into a sexual game that she and I were playing to spice up our marriage.

    However it goes, good luck, and please continue sharing your progress with us.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pigr75 View Post
    I think you need to get ahead of this thing, before it is too late.

    Right now, there are two things going on in secret: whatever is happening between the two of them that your wife has not shared with you, if there is anything, is a secret between the two them; your own fantasies constitute a sexual secret you are keeping from your wife. Both of these secrets, in my humble opinion, amount to cheating, and threaten to drive a wedge between the two of you.

    If you just let nature take its course, then either they will become lovers, or they will never take the relationship to the next level. If they become lovers behind your back, they will both be wracked with guilt, and you may well lose them both. This seems to me a very high price to pay for some delicious fantasies.

    If I were in your shoes, I would share my fears, my jealousy, and my fantasies with my wife. I would be very, very careful not to let her think I was accusing her of anything. She may well be unaware of the sexual nature of her developing relationship with your dad--Hell, they may both be clueless at this point. I would be prepared for her to be very defensive and hurt that I could even imagine her cheating. I would try to transform this dangerous, if exciting, reality, into a sexual game that she and I were playing to spice up our marriage.

    However it goes, good luck, and please continue sharing your progress with us.

    I think you are giving very good advice and I do appreciate it. It's entered my mind as well. I don't like having secret thoughts and fantasies about her and I sometimes feel very guilty thinking such things. She's a liberated and sexual woman and not overly judgmental so I don't think I will devastate her with any admissions. But still, I do worry about seeming like a big pervert or something with her. I also worry about making the wrong choice of action and blowing anything that there may be potential for. For instance, if I rushed anything and they were heading towards an affair, maybe it would blow it from happening at all. Like if it happened first and without my consent and prior knowledge and then it somehow comes out I could be supportive and encouraging and maybe it could flourish from there. But if I went to her and said I wanted her to have this affair, it could put things on a different course. Those were thoughts I've had anyway.

    As for their part in this and what secrets may be out there already, I do hear what you're saying. But at the same time I just can't help but feel excited thinking maybe there are secrets they have. Probably not the healthiest thing for a relationship but it still excites me. Part of me thinks that nothing has happened yet because they are both pretty darn open with their affections and flirty behavior. I felt like if something secret was happening maybe they would tone down that sort of thing in front of me, so as not to alarm me or anything. But then again, she/they are smart and might would realize that changing old ways drastically might send up a red flag or something. My wife has always been flirty and out going and somewhat an attention seeker. She's been that way since I first knew her. Her and my dad have been flirtatious since way back, even before we married. I wouldn't say he is a natural flirt like she is but he responded to her flirty ways in kind. My Mom never seemed bothered by it and neither did I so they had no reason to stop. I fell in love with Jenna just the way she is and she's a born flirt so. I would never dream of changing anything about her. I adore her and she knows it.

    But still I do know you're right and I need to somehow convey my thoughts and desires on all this. I just want to know the safest and best way to do it, without harming chances or what may already be in place.

    They had their "date" Thursday and I did work late. They did go out after to dinner and she got home a little after 10. I didn't get home myself till after 11 so I didn't see anything get to talk about their night. I asked her in the morning about things and she was very pleased and happy. She loves those dance classes and apparently her time with my dad as well. They get along perfectly it seems. This week sometime, maybe this weekend I am going to find a way to bring this subject up . Not sure how right now and any more advice would be greatly appreciated but I am going to broach the subject in someway or form. Thanks for your interest.

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    Quote Originally Posted by curiousdave View Post
    This week sometime, maybe this weekend I am going to find a way to bring this subject up . Not sure how right now and any more advice would be greatly appreciated but I am going to broach the subject in someway or form. Thanks for your interest.
    c_dave, You may want to break the ice by claiming you had a strange dream where things got carried away after dance & dinner.. Let her know that it excites you just recalling the dream....
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    Quote Originally Posted by NECuck View Post
    c_dave, You may want to break the ice by claiming you had a strange dream where things got carried away after dance & dinner.. Let her know that it excites you just recalling the dream....
    Wow, that's an excellent idea. Somehow I didn't think of it. Many thanks I just may use this one. I've actually had a couple of dreams that were on topic and could possibly draw from those. The dreams never had sex in them but I dreamed once fairly recently that he kissed her on the doorstep when he brought her home. I woke up with a very hard erection to that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by curiousdave View Post
    Wow, that's an excellent idea. Somehow I didn't think of it. Many thanks I just may use this one. I've actually had a couple of dreams that were on topic and could possibly draw from those. The dreams never had sex in them but I dreamed once fairly recently that he kissed her on the doorstep when he brought her home. I woke up with a very hard erection to that.
    Nothing like keeping the love in the family... Keep in mind that you need to ne prepared mentaly too.. Remember that you could end up losing your wife, just be prepared...
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    Dave,

    I think you've gotten some really good advice and suggestions in this thread from a variety of people.

    Something else I thought of to suggest:

    You could tell her that you know how much they like each other's company. (Now, here's where it gets tricky, but I think it's do-able...) Then you could suggest that if she wanted to try snuggling with him a little bit on occasion, you would be okay with that. "I'm not suggesting a sexual relationship or anything, but if you wanted to hug and kiss, maybe even make out a little bit, I don't see anything terribly wrong with that."

    If you try that, you could get one of a variety of reactions:

    1. She could say, "No way, I'm not ever going to do anything like that with him. He's your Dad!" Then you know that either she's dead set against it, or (unlikely but possible) they're doing it behind your back and don't want it out in the open.

    2. She could say, "I don't know, I'll have to think about it." That can be challenging, because then you're forced to wait for a while and not bring it up any time soon. After a while (a few days, perhaps?) you could ask her if she's thought about it and what she decided. (My choice of the word "decided" is intentional. It's intended to convey to her that it's entirely her decision, which is mostly true. And also to convey to her that you're not going to try to push her into anything that she doesn't want to do.)

    3. She could say, "You know, I've been wondering about something like that too. Let's talk about what the two of us (you and me) would need so that we can both feel okay about what happens."

    4. (Unlikely but possible) She could say, "Well, you know... I've been thinking about this issue, and trying to figure out how to tell you about the relationship that seems to be developing between him and me."

    Naturally, there are lots of other things she could say, maybe something that includes parts of different ones. Or maybe something completely unexpected, totally off-the-wall from your thoughts.

    I'd love to hear how it works out, whether you try my idea, or one of the other good suggestions you've gotten here.

    Good luck and xoxoxo!

    Christine
    Last edited by christinebitg; 03-24-2012 at 07:04 PM. Reason: Added my thoughts at the end of Item #2.

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    I loving your experience and looking forward to see what will happen with anticipation! Any updates?

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    Hi,

    you are really involved into an exciting situation. I follow your postings with very high interest. I agree with the other posters that in my opinion time is right now to get more and more detailed information. Try to get it and please inform us asap!

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    Quote Originally Posted by curiousdave View Post
    ...But still, I do worry about seeming like a big pervert or something with her. I also worry about making the wrong choice of action and blowing anything that there may be potential for. For instance, if I rushed anything and they were heading towards an affair, maybe it would blow it from happening at all. Like if it happened first and without my consent and prior knowledge and then it somehow comes out I could be supportive and encouraging and maybe it could flourish from there. But if I went to her and said I wanted her to have this affair, it could put things on a different course. Those were thoughts I've had anyway.
    I think NEcuck's idea about a sex dream is an excellent one. You could tell her you found it disturbing, but very exciting at the same time. In bed together is probably the best forum for this kind of discussion. You need to move slowly and carefully, making sure not to let her think you are accusing her of anything, or pushing her to do anything.

    I think you're better off not expressing any of this as your own desires--just your natural, if embarrassing, reactions to your own jealous fears and fantasies. If his game is going to work for you, it has to be based on her desires, not yours. You may have to help her uncover her own desires, for that matter, because they may be buried beneath her self image as a good and dutiful wife.

    On the strategy of standing silently by and hoping they may drift into an affair behind your back, I personally think this is too dangerous to your relationships with your wife and your father. Jealousy can be a powerful and negative emotion, but guilt is even harder to handle. Don't saddle them with that, if you can avoid it.

    Again, best of luck, and keep us posted.

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    Hi Guys sorry for the delay in an update, been very busy.



    Well Sunday's cook-out was mostly uneventful. But there is a little something worth mentioning I guess.Firstly Jenna was looking super hot (as usual in my opinion). She just got her hair done and the auburn color she has now looks great on her. BTW she's a hair stylist herself so she changes her style and colors quite often. But besides that she was tanned and lean looking, and dressed in short shorts and a clingy summer T. Very sexy if I do say so myself. But the little thing worth mentioning is later in the evening after dinner we were all sitting out on the patio around the table. My dad sat sort of across from me and his two friends (married couple from next door) sat in the other two chairs. Jenna had gone inside to clean up or something and when she came back she sat down on the arm of my dad's chair. She put her hand on his shoulder and sort of leaned down resting her arm on him. He put his arm around her waist and sort of hugged her to him a little and I noticed she sort of squeezed his shoulder in return. He was talking with his friends so he didn't really look up at her or anything, it was just a loving type gesture but it really excited me watching it. She continued sitting there for maybe 2 or 3 minutes then got up and came and sat down in my lap (only 4 chairs at that table). We stayed out there a little while longer chatting and stuff then finally we all said our goodbyes and made our way home. Nothing really special but you know, when you have these type feelings every little thing excites.

    Ok so the big moment of truth happened on the way home. I had been thinking of nothing all night but how and when I would drop my little "dream" on her. Well I had a few beers at dinner and felt pretty relaxed so as she drove I worked up the nerve and told her. I played with the truth a little telling her that I had Had this crazy dream the night before (actually a while back). But basically after that I just told her how it was. That she and my dad had gone to dance class, he brought her home, walked her to the door and gave her a goodnight kiss . The kiss turned into a long and passionate kiss goodnight. I told her she really got into it and so did he. She listened with a smile on her face not saying anything. It was a smile but more of a "Man that's crazy" type look more than anything. When I was done I paused waiting for her reaction. She just sort of sat there driving but still smiling. I think looking back she maybe thought there was more so she didn't say anything yet. But before she could I guess I got impatient and then blurted out kind of awkwardly (I was nervous) that I woke up really turned on by it. Now this did get a reaction. Still smiling but the "crazy type look" even more evident now she looked at me, almost like she was seeing if I was serious. I just sat there probably looking like a scared child or something. At that point after seeing I was serious, she calmly said "Wow, that was a weird dream wasn't it?" I was sooo nervous now, not believing I had actually told her, worried I flubbed it up, so many different thoughts running through my mind. I just said "Yeah, really wild". I was so hoping for something else, some kind of dialog about it all but nothing. We were very close to home when I disclosed my secret dream so we were home before I knew it. After that it was business as usual and we were getting ready for bed and nothing else was said. Of course I was thinking of nothing else but at that point, after telling her I was turned on by a dream of her kissing my dad and she had nothing to add, I had no idea how to proceed further with it. I laid there in bed all night worried I fucked everything up. She didn't react badly or get mad, but she didn't offer any thoughts or input either. So who knows?

    Monday she acted fine, not mad just normal as usual. Nothing out of the ordinary to report from Tuesday either. I had a very hard day at work Tuesday and crashed early to bed. So not much interaction between us at all. Today the same. She's still the same ole sweet Jenna, just acts unaffected by my admission. Frustrating to say the least.

    Now today I had a new and I think fantastic idea. There is no way possible I can bring up the dream thing again, or make any other type comment without her giving something back. It feels too awkward and like I'm forcing something on her. I just don't think I could work the nerve up for that again. But I had another idea and this one should be good. Might not do anything but I still like it. My Dad's birthday is in early May. But next month Tom Petty is coming to town and my dad is a huge fan of his. I was thinking that I would buy 3 tickets to this concert for all of us. Now on the day of the concert , like right before time to go, I'm gonna play sick and pull out. Leaving just the two of them to attend. This just popped in my head today and I got excited just thinking about it. Jenna loves going to concerts, dancing, clubbing, anything out and social. Dad loves Tom Petty , it should prove for a nice night out for them. Of course under the circumstances of right now with her not offering anything back from my dream, I can't be open about not going with them so I have to be deceptive. But I think it will work. Thoughts on this?


    And it's dance/date night again tomorrow. Maybe something will happen, we can hope!
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    Count to 10, breathe, amd then wait a couple of extra days. You need to give her some extra time, to let her mind work on what you said to her. And yes, I know it's *incredibly* difficult to do.

    I'm not a bit surprised that you enjoyed her resting her arm on him in front of your neighbors, and the friendly contact they had then. I know I would have been going crazy with it. Maybe her sitting on your lap after that was something she felt like she needed to do? So that it wouldn't look to your visitors like she is "with him" ?

    The concert thing sounds like an interesting possibility. Or you could just get the two of them tickets and say that you know they would both have a really great time. Which is, of course, all completely true. Your Dad's a huge fan of Tom Petty, and you know that the two of them would both love it, and that they enjoy each other's company, even if only platonically. And anyhow, the present is for him, right? If you're the one buying the present, you get to decide.

    I'd like to analyze a bit more, regarding her reaction to your dream:

    Going back to look at the possible reactions from her that I previously thought of, here's my take on it. She didn't have a meltdown or an "OMG, I can't believe you said that" reaction. And on the other hand, she didn't say "I've been thinking about that myself" response either. So she's somewhere in the middle. Give her a few days, to see if she wants to talk more about it later. She would have to be the one to bring it up, obviously.

    Also note that she didn't say much of anything. Just about all she said (and calmly, I have to remind you) is that it was a weird dream.

    It is possible that she is waiting to see if you have any kind of change in reaction to the two of them. A change resulting from the dream that you told her about, I mean. I think you are doing the right thing by not changing how you interact with her and with the two of them together.

    I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you. I know how much you'd like to see the two of them be intimate with each other.

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    Quote Originally Posted by christinebitg View Post

    I'd like to analyze a bit more, regarding her reaction to your dream:

    Going back to look at the possible reactions from her that I previously thought of, here's my take on it. She didn't have a meltdown or an "OMG, I can't believe you said that" reaction. And on the other hand, she didn't say "I've been thinking about that myself" response either. So she's somewhere in the middle. Give her a few days, to see if she wants to talk more about it later. She would have to be the one to bring it up, obviously.

    Also note that she didn't say much of anything. Just about all she said (and calmly, I have to remind you) is that it was a weird dream.

    It is possible that she is waiting to see if you have any kind of change in reaction to the two of them. A change resulting from the dream that you told her about, I mean. I think you are doing the right thing by not changing how you interact with her and with the two of them together.

    I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you. I know how much you'd like to see the two of them be intimate with each other.

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