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    Default Wives Telling the Husband of Their Lover

    I'm married to a cheating wife. She tells me about her affairs, but only after they've ran their course and finished.

    I've asked my wife why she doesn't tell me when she's seeing her lovers and she's said it'd spoil the affair if i knew and take the fun out of it.

    Question to cuckolds - Do you have similar experiences ?

    Question to wives - Is the sense of fun diminished if your husband knows ?

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    "Is the sense of fun diminished if your husband knows ?"

    Evry ones diffrent but for me all the good stuff is gone if my husband knew. Your wife dont want to fuck other men--she wants to have an affair. I understand completely.
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    Quote Originally Posted by emily View Post
    "Is the sense of fun diminished if your husband knows ?"

    Evry ones diffrent but for me all the good stuff is gone if my husband knew. Your wife dont want to fuck other men--she wants to have an affair. I understand completely.
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    Thanks for your thoughts emily. Can i ask why you think that the fun goes if your husband knew ?

    Is it coz it's more "naughty" with the risk of being found out, or are there other motivations such as getting one over your husband ?
    Does your husband mind when(if) he eventually finds out ?

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    My wife started as a cheating wife and still enjoys the occasional affair or even date without telling me. Fortunately, she also enjoys rubbing my face (literally and figuratively) in her infidelities and so most of her liasons are not kept from me and I can enjoy the lead up to a date as well as the reclaiming that takes place when she gets home.

    When my wife decides to keep an affair secret she does so primarily because she finds cheating to be "naughty". I think most of this is because she started off as a cheating wife and she still gets off on the illicit nature of cheating. It's funny, but I kind of like it too and it certainly keeps me on my toes as to what she is up to.

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    Quote Originally Posted by wifedateshubwaits View Post
    because she finds cheating to be "naughty". gets off on the illicit nature of cheating.
    It's funny, but I kind of like it too and it certainly keeps me on my toes as to what she is up to.
    Thanks wifedateshubwaits. My wife does claim those reasons for not telling me and you're right the uncertainty does keep me wondering. I wish she'd leave a couple more clues tho coz sometimes she's told me about an affair that i had no idea about.

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    years ago when my wife was cheating she did it because she was attracting good looking men that wouldn't have given her a second look in high school, she loved the attention she was getting and the excitement of doing it behind my back with "friends" of mine so the possibility of getting caught was always in the mix. I had an issue of not being able to last long enough to give her vaginal orgasms so she did enjoy some of the lovers that she said were like the energizer bunny, so even when she said that she did it for the attention not the sex she had her "fill" of sex with them.

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    thanks redfox,

    i think you're right. Wive's must get a thrill from the risk of getting found out and of course that risk is removed if she's been open with the husband from the start.

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    "Is it coz it's more "naughty" with the risk of being found out, or are there other motivations such as getting one over your husband ?
    Does your husband mind when(if) he eventually finds out ?"

    "Getting one over on him" dont got nothing to do with it for me. Maybe the being more "naughty" part. I do love being the slut when that mood hits me, and I done pretty crazy things then. But I dont think of it that way. For me theres just this magic thing about a secret affair. This secret love that only two share. Wanting to be with him so much no matter the risk. Being wanted so much he has to be with you even tho your married. Theres not any thing that thrills me more. I never "cuckolded" a husband out in the open. Only secret affairs. And slutty crazy shit here and there. Its the affairs that do it for me. I'd say your wife is the same.

    And I just never had a husband that didnt mind. I been left for my affairs when they found out. You all here are NOT like most men at all. My husband now -- I dont know. He will never find out so I will never find out. Older and wizer now.

    I think your wife is really lucky to have you.
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    as for me , i have been present or at least aware of my wife having sex with a black friend of hers who helped in hiring me where he works. that started after our second year of marriage and continues to this day.
    regarding her other relationships, it took a while for me to realize and accept, it's not about what i want at all. she laid down the law that she needs to feel like an individual, not just a wife. but like , wifedateshubwaits she can rub my face in it too. you can't always get what you want, but if you try sometime, you get what you need.

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    My wife had at least two affairs but never told me about them. I discovered them on my own. She doesn't want to talk about them with me.

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    I tell my husband only what I want him to know. I have fun with it. He knows I keep some secrets but he knows mostly when I see him. It's part of the fun me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by emily View Post
    And I just never had a husband that didnt mind. I been left for my affairs when they found out. You all here are NOT like most men at all. My husband now -- I dont know. He will never find out so I will never find out. Older and wizer now.

    I think your wife is really lucky to have you.
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    Thanks again for your wonderful insight.

    It's a shame you haven't met a guy that doesn't mind, but as you say, that could take away some of the thrill as there's no risk anymore. So it may be that you are married to the right person (someone who you really do have to hide it from).

    Regarding my wife, yes i too think she is lucky as i'd never leave her coz of her affairs. The only thing is that my wife doesn't fully appreciate what she's got in me. As she's still hesitant to fully open up. She sort of expects or wants me to be angry and finds it unsettling when i show her love and care, instead of anger.

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    Interesting topic!!

    It took me 5 years to convince my wife to go out with other men and let me watch. Due to restricted self assurance of "bulls" - they became very nervous when they heard that hubby likes to watch - we decided that wife will go alone and roleplays the cheating wife. Believe me, she was much more successful in this way.

    I always help her to prepare for her dates, make proposal for outfits, buy new lingery if necessary. Then I am home alone and have millions of butterflies in my stomach thinking about my wife`s date.

    Afterwards when she arrives at home I enjoy all lurid details og her night out and I like to sit with her in her "used" condition.

    Coming back to the question: If I would not be informed about my wifes`dates, what would be in for me? In my opinion I would miss all the interesting details I would be able to tell.

    fred

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    Quote Originally Posted by ffred View Post
    If I would not be informed about my wifes`dates, what would be in for me? fred
    As someone who enjoys both types of play, I can say with certainty that the cheating aspect is also fun. There is something that's very erotic about discovering that your wife has just spent the afternoon with another man when she told you she was going shopping, or when she nonchalantly mentions that for the past several months she has been fucking a guy she met at the gym. To my way of thinking, it just reinforces how sexy my wife can be and how little control I actually have over her sex life. Since I love independent women, this works perfectly for me.

    That said, I do love the the anticipation and preparation that goes into the dates that I am made aware of. Shaving my wife's pussy, helping her attach the garters to her stockings and even fastening the straps on her heels have a special allure to me and help make her time away an erotic adventure.

    I guess variety is the spice of life!

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    Quote Originally Posted by wifedateshubwaits View Post
    I guess variety is the spice of life!
    Very interesting arguments, thank you very much.
    Maybe I should give it a try!!

    fred

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