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Contact wife's coworker who fucked her?
Ever since my wife fucked a co-worker at her job, I've been almost obessed with her becoming a Hot Wife. Despite the cheating, I understood what happened and have forgiven her. She knows that if she wants do it again, all she needs to do is ask and we'll work something out. I have brought up the incident in our sex play and it always gets real hot for both of us. She has admitted, several times, that she'd love to do it again with him, but doesn't want it to cause me pain. She is also worried about the implications for her job and the coworkers position. It was a great fun fling, but nothing to lose employment over.
I'd love for the flirting to continue and even having it go to a 3sum. She's open but since she broke it off with him after I found out, he doesn't know that we've been talking about starting things up again. For my wife, it is still a fantasy of continuing but for me it is more. I thought about contacting him, but not sure how he'll react. He might even freak out as if I'm trying to trap him, which I'm not.
Anyone been in this situation? Suggestions?
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Sounds very promising to me. She's willing, thats a BIG plus in the deal. Even if for some reason it can't be worked out with the co-worker (which I'm not saying it can't), but even if it can't I'd say you have a great chance at being cuckolded again, maybe fulltime.
The deal sounds hot to me. Just be patient and not too pushy. Don't just sweep it under the rug or anything but let her figure some of it out herself so it won't end up like it's your affair or something. Judging from alot I've read , woman can get cold feet fast that way. Just be supportive and try and keep her hot for it in subtle ways. Keep us informed man, I'm interested!
Who should contact him?
Two things caught my attention in your situation. First, there is the employment issue. If he is not her supervisor (or vice versa), we can't have a "quid pro quo" violation of sexual harrassment laws. Sorry about the legalese, but I teach this subject (grin). Nevertheless, an awkward situation could result in job jeopardy in some organizations. I have no clue what she does, or how big the organization is (and that matters). Hence, I can't help you there.
However, you offered the following phrase:
This issue is far easier. If you two have decided to reestablish this relationship and he does not know, SHE has to reintroduce the topic. He can't wonder if you are trying to overrule her. He needs to have consistent messages, not conflicting messages. She has her work cut out for her. She has to seduce someone she already had sex with. Fortunately for her, we guys tend to be "easy."
but since she broke it off with him after I found out..
Good luck to you both. Well, good luck to you three.
Your wife taking one of her co-workers as a lover is a pretty risky proposition. Apart from the point about sexual harassment -- which is a real concern -- it is very hard to keep a tryst with a co-worker secret...and it's also tough to keep it from becoming a more serious relationship. In other words, leave it alone and DON'T contact the guy.
I pretty much agree with others that you shouldn't push this too hard. Clearly your wife is open to exploring this, but if you nudge her she will shut down. My suggestion is to be really patient, but, from time to time, bring it up as a hypothetical when you're not in bed (generally speaking, it's easy for a wife to discount what's said while having sex as being "in the heat of passion" stuff). For example, one thing that really helped with my wife and I was our taking a drive one afternoon where we began talking about it in "what if" terms (e.g., "would you want me to know ahead of time?" "should he use condoms?" etc.). Once she and I began talking it through that way she really began to understand that I was comfortable with her fucking around and that it wasn't some scheme to get her approval for me to see other women (which, like other cucks, I really have little interest in).
One other suggestion: respect your wife's privacy. There are a ton of reasons why, even if you open the door to her seeing other guys, she may not want to tell you at first what's going on... or even confirm it's happening. For instance, she may feel obligated to honor the other man's desire to keep their relationship totally secret. In addition, she may also feel that this is a corner of her life that belongs to her alone. The key word in all this: patience. If you push too hard she'll flat-out reject the idea, or, worse, she'll go through with it to make you happy and resent the Hell out of you for it.
For the couple of you who may be following this, I wanted to give you an update. Well I decided not to contact my wife's coworker. Too many risks because of the job. Wife and I are still going strong in our marriage and the sex is hot when we bring up the fantasy of her fucking him. As time went by, I found out a few more things about him and their fling. Turns out that it wasn't all that hot compared to what she and I have done together. Nor does he even measure up to me, if you know what I mean. She liked the thrill of the taboo of it all, and the location, but the overall actual sex was lacking.
Before you jump the gun and say she's trying to make me feel better, the conversations on which these things were revealed were initiated with a slip up on her part. When I questioned for more details, it was very plain she was telling me the truth. Having been in a real situation myself, where the setting and taboo nature (I was fucking a friends wife) was really hot, I also understand that sometimes the sex function part is really just so, so.
Perhaps there will be another hot guy out there somewhere who will fuck my wife the way she needs to be fucked and we can get it all started on the right track... up front and honest from the get go. Who knows!
That's pretty hot that she fucked another guy though. She could do it again I suppose, based on what I've heard. Which wouldn't be all bad, as long as she has a good experience. She might find someone eventually who gives her extreme pleasure and makes her feel very feminine and sexual.
Then, you can talk about things on your terms, but you have to understand that it's her sexual life that comes first, no pun intended
I believe the ball is definately in her court. She is the one who needs to approach her co-worker. I think that he would take offense to the situation if you are the one who approached him about fucking your wife. I too have fucked 3 men at my work (a supervisor, a security officer, and a UAW Chairman).....loved fucking them all. I am upfront and tell them them that it is strictly sex and nothing more. They have no clue that my hubby knows and is anxiously awaiting my return home to clean up the mess that they left behind. It is a very tricky situation when you are doing it with a co-worker. You must totally trust them and they must totally trust you so know one gets hurt or loses their jobs. I work for a large company and in a position that I must enforce the rules....not break them. I trust them and they trust me.....we all get what we desire and keep it hush hush....
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yeh that definitely is real hot fucking co-workers. There is def. a thrill to it